Neil J Milliner
Ghosting isn’t just a modern dating trend-it’s a deeply human behavior rooted in avoidance, fear, and emotional regulation. In The Psychology of Why People Ghost You, Neil J. Milliner explores the hidden dynamics that drive people to disappear without explanation, leaving behind confusion, hurt, and unanswered questions.Drawing on psychology, neuroscience, and practical exercises, this book reveals:The attachment styles and defense mechanisms that fuel ghostingWhy silence often feels more painful than rejectionHow ghosting shows up not only in dating, but in friendships, family, and professional lifeStrategies to reframe ghosting as information, not a verdict on your worthTools to rebuild confidence, set boundaries, and protect your emotional energyWritten with warmth, wit, and clarity, this guide empowers readers to move beyond guilt and self-blame. Instead of obsessing over 'what went wrong,' you’ll learn to recognize patterns, understand the psychology behind them, and reclaim your narrative.Whether you’ve been ghosted once or many times, this book offers both validation and transformation. It’s not about changing the people who disappear-it’s about changing how you respond, heal, and grow stronger in the face of silence.The Psychology of Why People Ghost You is your roadmap to turning rejection into resilience, and unanswered texts into unshakable self-trust.
